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not trying be an *** but if he went through training and didnt pass his medical test as you said he had high blood pressue then how in the world he become a e-4. the highest you can be going to your first duty station is a e-3. however some different rates have accelerated petty officer awards that are awarded to the highest student in each class during there a- school training. if you recieve this award then once you get to your first command you CO will then promte you to e-4. anyways just some navy food for thought. i am sure yuo meant he was an e-3 though. honest mistake right?
maybe the next time she sees him he can elaborate. well my dad was in the army for 27 years and retired as a seargent major. he went thru hell and back wwith vietnam and even me being a kid i knew what he did. he was in the infantry thne became a drill instructer at fort jackson south carolina. i find it funny that u dont know what he is doing. i mean u guys are married. or is it that u didnt really care what he did. i think i opneed a whole can of worms by posting this out there. well i hope u can have him reply to this. :sifone:
I think he was trying to be an e4 and he didn't pass the test to go up in rank.
Sorry I don't know everything about the military so that was an honest mistake yeah.
I haven't really talked to him about working, so I don't know how he gets discharged or out of the military.
With the way things are going right now, that's none of my business because we aren't together, just like my career, is none of his business.
Thank you for correcting me target.
I honestly didn't know, I was just guessing by based on how much we have talked about it before.
I'll have to find out what is going on though, because whether he likes it or not, he will very much so be paying child support.
He helped create this baby, and he's going to do his half in help raising him.
That's all for now.
We were together three months before we got married.
And whether or not it was a mistake or not, I do love him, so we didn't talk about other things, other than us, for a good while.
Did that surprise any of you?
I think you are going to be like wtf?
Once you read the above but it is true.
And it was fast, and intense, and now it's blah, pretty much.
Actually I don't think it was three months but a bit longer.
Maybe four months.
I just had to correct myself for that.
oh man sounded like he got u preggo then u guys decided to get married and not have a child out of wedlock. i blame religion for this. and then it just never materialized. did u meet him at a bar. or what. sounded like a one night stand lasted awhile. u might get mad at the last:sifone: comment but am i right.
Actually you aren't right.
Just to let you know, my parents knew each other for two weeks, and they got married, and have just celebrated their 24th wedding anniversary.
By the way that's just rude.
Maybe you need to read my post about forum conduct, and general common decency.
It's not that everything is rude to me.
It's just the simple commond decency.
You wouldn't walk up to a woman who's chubby and ask when is the baby due?
Would you?
It's the same thing here.
You may be thinking it, but you don't actually say it.
Or do you?
I wouldn't but I guess that's only me.
But that could happen and it could end up being a tumor in the stomach.
That'd be heartbreaking so you don't do things like that, you see?
u get my sympathy vote for this one. i do think of things befroe i say it but i also tell it like it is. i am not one to knock your marriage. i am just putting 2 and 2 together and i was wrong. well good job to your dad and mom. i am happy for them. they are one in a million.
Yes they are.
I love them both dearly and just wanted to set the record straight.
I'm really not trying to cause any controversy.
Oh to be young and foolish again.
Only this time with a child.
Next time I plan to get married I will have to wait longer than three months.
That was the part that was foolish.
The rush.
There is no rush to life, because it's not a race.
I will remember and learn from it though.
i cant comment on that but lesson learned. thats all.
kaci I.m so sorry you were attacked at the game .....it started on my table ...it was like a shark attack I showed weakness by saying his remarks were hurtful and they need to stop...and then target lilred and allin jumped in so they were all riled up and I just let them have there play at me in my silence....then we came to your table and one of them made that awful remark as an attempt at humor. i think its a juvenile attempt to make us want to leave...
i really have no idea what is wrong with these guys lately ...they are rude and have no idea how rude they are...so they cant be change. Glo has a scewed look on life from what I've gathered and the only one that can help him is himself ..he will either start treating others with respect or he will stand on his "I am who I am" soap box...
Your situation is not your fault.. it is out of your control ..the love you've lost is as real as anyones and you have every right to be sad/mad . but your future is like a blank canvas.. go out and make it a field of diasies.... you have a child on the way that needs a strong loving mother ...you will be a great one!
Thank you so much sue!
I'm glad someone else can back me up and say I'm not the only one saying these guys have been being meaner than necessary.
It's not necessary to be mean at all but I think you get my point in the expression.
I'm sorry they were attacking you.
I don't really take things lying down, so that's why I made a thread about what had happened at tonight's chip game.
I don't agree with Glo's outlook on life.
And I agree with you.
But we can just leave that at that.
No need to start more drama, you know?
I will admit I played a part in what happened to me.
There are two people in a marriage.
But it's no one's place to use it to rub salt in the wounds.
Thank you for your support.
You are truly a beautiful person, inside and out.
sue i really like you and never ever had a problem with you. i sorry for how you feel tonight but i never said anything rude or hurtfull to you like you claim i did. all i said was the last time someone complained about the chat the table ndn said to just turn the chat off and you wont have to deal with the comments at the table. i never once said anything mean or rude to you. i really hope we can move on from this as this isnt how i want to be looked or viewed as a bad person.
Okay guys.
This thread will return to be about me.
It's my blog afterall.
And I will post ultra sound pictures and pictures of me, pre baby.
And maybe some of me pregnant even.
I'm sorry Pan, I didn't see your post until just now, or I would've commented about this earlier.
Obviously.
Stay tuned to the next blog and to some pics from me for my little family.
Me and baby that is.