How to shed the negativity?

I use to be so positive.
Lately I am sooooo negative.
I will try to keep this short because of my blindness to
quality and being positive.

Somethings wrong with me today.
I scolded my daughter, my wife don't want to talk to me I got suspended for 30 days and my life just plain sucks right now, with tears in my eays I write this.

I don't think I can get through this by myself.
I hope that something one of my friends writes will cheer me up and help me get through this trying time in my life.
Please?

Ringo, we all have bad days and we all have good days. Whatever the reasons. Maybe you are feeling so blue today amongst many, many others as today is September 11,. This date may just be in your subconscious in memory of the tragedy in New York 8 years ago. I know I woke up pissed off at all kinds of things and had to cry when I realized that so many people have so much more to be sad about then poor little old me. I had to ask for forgiveness for my being so selfish. Sometimes our moods a feelings are hard to understand that alone how can we explain them? I don't know. But on the brighter side of things, tomorrow is a brand new day. Whatever will we do with it? Try to think of all the blessings in your life, I bet they out weight the bad things. And if that doesn't work try to see that there are many people who have it much worse than you. Not that it is a good thing but it may help you to see the good in your life.
This is written with the love and friendship that I will always keep in my heart for you. Lori

Don't worry, be happy! Schoobally doobally doobally do wah wah wooooah!

If that doesn't put a smile on your face, just ask navuta about his methabolic spicy on the brain. Maybe that's what you need.

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Originally Posted by taylovesthebeatles

Don't worry, be happy! Schoobally doobally doobally do wah wah wooooah!

If that doesn't put a smile on your face, just ask navuta about his methabolic spicy on the brain. Maybe that's what you need.

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Sorry no

I'm still teary eyed from Loris post

ty for trying

I could come over and punch you in the balls that way the sadness shifts from your head and heart to a different area if you know you think it will help??

Awww, Ringo I hope you cheer up soon. I don't like to see you like this. Lori said it all best. She is good at that. Tomorrow is a new day and you'll have a new attitude. Don't be too cranky with your family. Just chill and try to get a good night's sleep. I bet you can think of all kinds of good stuff to do on NDN after your ban has ended. You are so creative and started the dance contest, the trivia, the football hdcp., etc. I know you'll come up with something else, so don't get too down on yourself. Have a good night, we love you.

I am so emotional over what happened today and my sudden ban with no warning, I don't see how I can be positive self again here at NDN.

After my 30 day ban I will still be bitter. Who wouldn't?



I just can't see how I could shed this bitterness I feel now.

I really feel betrayed.

The 30-day suspension is the first and only warning before a complete ban.

If you can understand why I placed a temporary chip ban on you (and I believe you've stated several times that you understand) then there really is no reason to be bitter about it.

Some things simply aren't allowed here and I can't pick and choose who to punish based on how much I like the person.

With that said, I do appreciate you as a member and you contribute often here.

I will continue to get caught up on your posts over the last two days while I have been gone. If I don't run into any other problems, I will gladly add you back to the chips system and hopefully we will all have learned an important lesson (To Always Talk To NDN Before Taking Action).

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Originally Posted by nodepositneeded

(To Always Talk To NDN Before Taking Action).

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but sometimes he doesn't love me the way I want to be loved!