Pocket AAs in cash games

Well everyone I have learned to be very careful with pocket aas in cash games. I keep losing my *** playing them. I play them hard I get killed I play them slow I really get killed. I don't know how the hell to play them. People are so aggressive in cash games their looking to crack pocket pairs and they do alot. Once you raise big and get called then the flop comes and you bet big to get the chasers gone and they go all in and chase anyway and somehow I get beat 80 percent of the time with aas and kks and such. It makes me sick. Watching these idiots get lucky and then later give my money back to someone else who's hand actually holds up. Oh well I guess I got to take the good with the bad. Its poker